Shouldn't I be Happy?

Pregnancy and childbirth are a happy and joyous time for some women, but for others the experience can be one of anxiety, fear and confusion. Because our society cherishes pregnancy and motherhood, many women suffer in silence when their experience is anything less than sublime. How do they explain their unhappiness to spouses, friends, and family, and how can they know if what they are experienceing are the normal mood fluctuations of pregnancy or if they should seek professional help? This book offers specific advice on emotional issues ranging from the normal marital adjustments that come with parenthood to the more serious problems of depression or grief at the loiss of a new born. The book counsels women on coping with the common stresses that accompany the course of pregnancy and early motherhood. It also discusses when therapy may be needed as well as the best type of therapy for different problems. Throughout, the book addresses the questions women most often have about their feelings and their emotional difficulties during this very precious time.