Preface Emerging Leader's Guide to True North

This guide is your way to become an authentic leader who follows your True North. It will lead you through a series of introspective exercises that enable you to reflect on yourself as you strive to reach your full potential as a leader. The chapters parallel the chapters in the Emerging Leader Edition of True North. In using this guide, you should first read the chapter in the book, and then work through the exercises in this guide.

We have organized this guide around the proven process of becoming an authentic, effective leader. This means starting with the inner journey of understanding who you are because the hardest person you will ever have to lead is yourself. First, you will explore your life story and its relationship to your leadership.

After a broad review of your life story, we'll ask you to unpack significant crucibles, or searing moments that seem to hold great meaning. By mining your life stories and exploring your crucibles, you begin to uncover unique patterns that help to define who you are-your authentic self. To keep you from losing your way, we'll also highlight several common patterns that might distract you from realizing your True North.

Next you will work through the key developmental steps to becoming an authentic leader: developing your self-awareness, living your values, finding your sweet spot, and leading an integrated life.

Having completed the inner journey, you are ready for the outer journey of leading people. It starts with the journey from I to We. Then you are ready to find your purpose in leading-your North Star, a fixed point that guides your leadership. You will then learn how to be a coach to other leaders to enable them to reach their full potential.

In taking on today's challenges, we need authentic leaders who will create sustainable organizations dedicated to making this world better for everyone. This includes taking on today's greatest challenges of being an inclusive leader, leading through crises, and becoming a moral leader who is true to your beliefs and your values as you carry out your purpose.

After completing this work, you'll be ready to create your own Leadership Development Plan (LDP). This is a dynamic document that you can return to in future years to assess your progress, make any necessary updates, and use as a lifelong guide to remain oriented toward your True North.

WHY THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU

Leadership matters. It matters a great deal-to our organizations and institutions, to the people who work in them, and to the people who are served by them. As a leader, you have the opportunity to influence the lives of thousands of people and have a positive impact on organizations and the greater society in which you live.

We wrote the Emerging Leader Edition of True North because we have a passion to see more people in all walks of life lead authentically and because we wanted to help people like you discover your authentic leadership so you can make this world a better place for everyone.

No longer is leadership just about the people on top. Today's challenges require all of us to step up to the challenges of leadership. Any time you make a decision that impacts others, you are leading. In a crisis it is often the people with no titles who rise to the occasion to meet the challenges. Thus, whether you are a student, parent, bus driver, army officer, CEO, grandparent, or citizen of the world, you have the opportunity to step up and lead.

This book is for those who wish to become authentic leaders so that when they have the opportunity to lead, they will step up to the challenges and lead effectively, while living meaningful lives. As you navigate the unchartered territory of the 21st century, we hope our guide assists you in becoming a highly effective-and authentic-leader, one who follows your True North and discovers your North Star.

DISCOVERING YOUR AUTHENTIC LEADERSHIP

Becoming an authentic leader is hard work. The process is not much different from becoming a world-class musician or a successful athlete. To become great in any endeavor-whether in your career, your family, or your community-you must leverage the unique strengths you were born with, while acknowledging and learning from your shortcomings.

After searching for a role model for many years, I learned that I could never become a great leader by emulating someone else or by minimizing my shortcomings. As National Association of Corporate Directors "Director of the Year" Reatha Clark King says, "If you're aiming to be like somebody else, you're being a copycat because you think that's what people want you to do. You'll never be a star with that kind of thinking. But you might be a star-unreplicable-by following your passion."

Many books offer quick fixes or seven easy steps to leadership. Unfortunately, leadership development doesn't work that way. To realize your potential as a leader, you need a systematic plan to enable your growth. That's the goal of the Emerging Leader's Guide to True North: to offer a clear and detailed path to guide your development.

We encourage you to take on as many leadership experiences early in life as you can. Don't sit back and wait for them to come to you. Seek them out! After each experience, process them by returning to your development plan, make necessary changes, and reengage with a clearer sense of your True North. This is a lifelong process. Start now.

As you embark on this journey, recall the fundamental messages from the Emerging Leader Edition of True North:

• You do not have to be born with characteristics or traits of a leader.
• You do not have to be at the top of an organization.
• You can step up and lead today.
• You can discover your True North right now.

HOW SHOULD I USE THIS GUIDE?

Your responses to the exercises and your notes in this personal guide are your confidential work. However, we do encourage you to share them with trusted others, including mentors, coaches, and members of your support team or True North Group. Their feedback will be invaluable to you in developing your Leadership Development Plan.

As you share your personal story and insights with others, we encourage you to take some risks; experiment with being a bit more vulnerable than perhaps you might ordinarily be. We've found that sharing your story can be incredibly liberating and in fact deepen ties with those you trust.

There are several ways you might use this guide:

1. As an individual, you can complete these exercises and draft your LDP on your own.
2. You can work through this personal guide in a True North Group (TNG), with friends or even with new acquaintances. Everyone should complete the exercises individually, and then discuss the insights openly with other members of the group. Then it can be helpful to go back to the exercises and update them, based on the feedback. Your group can be led by a professional facilitator, who guides your discussion and keeps the group on track. Or you can create a peer-facilitated group, in which leadership of the group rotates to a different group member for each session. I pioneered this approach using peer facilitators in six-person True North Groups in the Authentic Leadership Development classes at Harvard Business School.
3. To enhance the process, you can also use the Emerging Leader's Guide to True North in conjunction with a personal coach or mentor. Experienced partners can help deepen your learning, provide feedback, and add an additional layer of insights and discipline to the process.
4. You can also use this personal guide with your team at work. As team leader, you can guide your team through the process yourself or enlist a professional team-building consultant or facilitator to enhance the process.
5. You can use this guide along with the Emerging Leader Edition of True North as the basis for a course on leadership development, either in an academic setting or in an organization. This material is flexible enough to support leaders at all stages in their careers: young leaders, including college and graduate students; midcareer leaders; leaders at the top of their organizations; and leaders embarking on the third phase of their journeys after having completed their principal leadership roles.

   In the case of a larger group, you may need a professor, teacher, or leadership development professional to help structure the material and lead the group. Many others have used this book as the backbone for executive MBA courses on leadership.

A FINAL WORD TO USERS OF THIS GUIDE

As you embark on this journey of self-discovery, let us offer our personal welcome. We encourage you to be as open and honest as possible when you complete these exercises. The more truthful and vulnerable you are with yourself, the greater the impact of this personal guide. Have the courage to explore your life deeply to understand who you are as a human being, to discover where you really fit in this world, to recognize how you can use your leadership to impact others in a positive way, and to leave a lasting legacy of which you'll be proud.

We have witnessed deep and lasting transformation in leaders who have taken this journey as they shaped their century organizations and institutions. Whether they were leading...