
Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
Beschreibung
From the author of the self-help hit, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, this essential guide offers daily, practical ways to help you heal the invisible wounds caused by immature parents, nurture self-awareness, trust your emotions, improve relationships, and stop putting others' needs ahead of your own.
If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you probably still struggle with anger, sadness, resentment, or shame. As a child, your emotional needs were not met, your feelings were dismissed, and you likely took on adult levels of responsibility in an effort to compensate for your parent's behavior. Somewhere along the way, you lost your sense of self. And without this strong sense of self, you may feel like your own well-being isn't valuable.
In this compassionate guide-written just for you, not them-you'll find tips and tools to help you set boundaries with others, honor and validate your emotions, and thrive in the face of life's challenges. You'll discover how to protect yourself from hurtful behavior, stop making excuses for others' limitations, forge healthier relationships, and feel more confident in your life. Most importantly, you'll learn how to stop putting others' needs before your own, and manage daily stressors with competence, clarity, and optimism.
Self-care means honoring and respecting the self. But when you grow up with emotionally immature parents, you are taught that setting limits is selfish and uncaring. You are taught to seek approval instead of authenticity in relationships. And you are taught that empathy and emotional awareness are liabilities, rather than assets. But there's another way to go through life-one in which you can take care of yourself, first and foremost.
Let this book guide you toward a new way of being.
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Inhalt
- Intro
- Contents
- Introduction: Life Skills You Were Never Taught
- PART I: Protecting and Caring for Yourself
- Be True to Yourself
- 1. Build a Better Relationship with Yourself
- 2. You Have the Right to Be Here
- 3. A Case of Mistaken Identity
- 4. Be Proud of Yourself
- 5. Listening to Your Soul
- Practice Emotional Self-Protection
- 6. Loosening the Ties That Bind
- 7. The Purpose of Boundaries
- 8. Why You're Emotionally Fatigued
- 9. Healing from Emotional Injuries
- 10. Debug Your Mind
- Honor Your Inner World
- 11. Pick Your Right Inner Voice
- 12. What Emotions Are For
- 13. Why You Feel Dread
- 14. Don't Be Undermined into Depression
- Nurture YourEmotional Health
- 15. Self-Care Instead of Self-Indulgence
- 16. The Importance of Emotional Safety
- 17. Use Your Health-O-Meter
- 18. Writing Therapy
- 19. Learning from Nature
- PART II: Dealing with People
- Relationship Issues
- 20. The Relationship Economy
- 21. The Gumby Effect
- 22. The Café of Love
- 23. Mr. and Ms. Right Now
- 24. Should I Stay, or Should I Go?
- 25. Be a Relationship Leader
- 26. Why Emotional Maturity Matters
- Difficult People
- 27. Dominating Types
- 28. Tyrannical Talkers
- 29. The Cold Shoulder
- 30. Such a Nice Person
- 31. The Empty Mirror
- 32. Relationship Wolves
- 33. Struggling with Forgiveness
- 34. Don't Blame My Parents
- 35. Meeting Your Maker
- How It Feels to Be Treated Well
- 36. What Mr. Rogers Loved in You
- 37. The Dalai Lama Wants You to Be Happy
- 38. Kindness Lessons from a Dentist
- 39. Finding a Spiritual Teacher
- 40. Pets Who Love Us
- Emotionally Mature Parenting
- 41. The Truth about Children
- 42. Best-Kept Secret in Parenting
- 43. Focus Your Praise
- 44. How to Comfort an Extrovert
- 45. How to Comfort an Introvert
- 46. Ungrateful Children
- 47. Here Come the Zoomers
- 48. Accept Your Teen's Immaturity
- 49. Why Einstein Didn't Play Soccer
- 50. Evolution in Our Children
- 51. Graduation for Parents
- PART III: Coping with Challenges
- Meet Life on Its Own Terms
- 52. It's a Wild World
- 53. The Realm of the Required
- 54. Cultivate Your Mule Mind
- 55. When to Back Off
- 56. Appreciate Your Threshold Guardians
- 57. Football Lessons
- 58. Life's Tuition
- Lower Your Stress
- 59. The Stressaholic
- 60. Ninety Seconds to Feel Better
- 61. Try the Judgment Diet
- 62. Overcoming Social Anxiety
- 63. Master Your Machine Mind
- 64. Stopping Self-Criticism
- 65. Seeking Perfection
- 66. Find Your Pace
- Take the Right Approach for You
- 67. How to Approach Problems
- 68. Focus on the Outcome You Want
- 69. Challenge Your Negativity Bias
- 70. Live Your Own Story
- 71. Life Coaching from Technology
- 72. Crossing the Fear Boundary
- 73. Don't Call Yourself Lazy
- 74. Make Room for Space
- 75. The Art of Living
- 76. The Rest of Your Life
- Afterword
- Acknowledgments
- About the Author
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