Mister
Description
Your sex life doesn't have to feel confusing, disappointing, or like something's wrong with you.
You're not broken, and you're definitely not alone.
If you've ever asked yourself "Why don't I enjoy sex more?", "Is something wrong with me?", or "How do I talk to my partner about that thing I want to try?" this book is for you.
Mister is the no-BS guide for men who want more: more confidence, more connection, and yes, more orgasms. Drawing from over a decade of experience as a sex therapist, Dr. Michael Stokes tackles the questions guys are too embarrassed to ask and delivers clear, judgment-free answers.
Inside, you'll learn:
- Why you're stuck in your head during sex-and how to fix it
- What your sexual fantasies really mean
- The truth about porn, masturbation, performance anxiety, and erectile issues
- How to talk to your partner about sex without it being awkward
- How to enjoy sex on your terms-without shame or pressure
Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, Mister is your guide to understanding your sexuality, reclaiming your desire, and building a sex life that actually feels good.
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Content
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
INTRODUCTION
Part 1: You Deserve Better Sex
CHAPTER 1: Why Do I Struggle with Sex So Much?
CHAPTER 2: Are My Sexual Fantasies Normal?
CHAPTER 3: Is It Okay to Like This? Understanding Kinks and BDSM
CHAPTER 4: What's the Deal with Porn?
CHAPTER 5: How Much Masturbation Is Too Much?
CHAPTER 6: Am I Gay? Straight? Bi? Does It Matter?
CHAPTER 7: How Do I Figure Out What I Really Want in My Sex Life?
CHAPTER 8: Why Do I Sometimes Want Sex and Other Times I Don't?
CHAPTER 9: Are There Other Places I Can Experience Pleasure Other Than My Penis?
Part 2: Demystifying Partnered Sex
CHAPTER 10: What Makes a Sexual Relationship Healthy?
CHAPTER 11: How Do I Talk to My Partner About Sex Without It Being Awkward?
CHAPTER 12: What's the Point of Partnered Sex?
CHAPTER 13: How Can I Deal with Being Rejected?
Part 3: Sex Challenges
CHAPTER 14: Should I Be Using Sex Toys and Other Enhancers?
CHAPTER 15: How Can I Fix Erectile Problems?
CHAPTER 16: Why Do I Get So Nervous About Sex and How Can I Stop?
CHAPTER 17: What Can I Do About Performance Anxiety?
Part 4: Mindful Sex for Life
CHAPTER 18: What Is Sensate Focus?
CHAPTER 19: What Do I Really Care About When It Comes to Sex?
CONCLUSION
AUTHOR'S NOTE
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
