
Help! I need to master critical conversations
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Have you ever worried about delivering truthful feedback at work? If you water down the message, the real issues do not get aired or understood. On the other hand, if the brutal truth is delivered, you may risk damaging your work relationships.
This book provides practical frameworks to plan and deliver a critical conversation in such a way that the brutal truth can be communicated while still maintaining good relationships. It is designed as a practical how-to guide with real-world examples tested in a business coaching environment.
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Preface
Acknowledgments
1: Recognizing a Critical Conversation
- Introduction
- Giving and receiving feedback
- What makes it critical
- Why it can go wrong
- How to spot a critical conversation
- Avoiding the fool's choice
2: Planning the Conversation
- Shared goal
- Story in full
- Selection and filtering
- Suitable setting
- Starter and recovery phrases
- 5-step conversation starter framework
- Find alignment
- Feelings
- Facts and a For instance
- Friendly preamble
- Fear buster
- Recovery phrases
- Case study examples
3: Having the Conversation
- Johari window
- Active questioning
- Active listening
- Active listening techniques
- Mirroring and labeling
- Silence and priming
- Paraphrasing
- Staying in dialogue
- Case study examples
4: Emotional Control
- Karpman drama triangle
- Telling yourself a new story
- Unhelpful stories - hero games
- Truthful stories
- Trigger depth and recovery speed
- Controlling emotions and feelings
- Dealing with emotional triggering
5: Difficult Conversations
- Process to deal with difficult conversations
- Apology as a safety pre-check
- Accusation Audit in the safety pre-check
- Admitting your contribution
- When conversations go bad
- Recovery strategy
- Case study examples
6: Closing Well
- Agreeing on the action plan
- Follow up after the conversation
- Conclusion
Appendix 1 - Memory joggers
Appendix 2 - Examples of having truthful conversations
Appendix 3 - Conversation planning template
Appendix 4 - Directive style conversation template
Appendix 5 - Supportive style conversation template
Appendix 6 - Recovery strategy
References
Review and feedback
About the Author
- 5-step conversation starter framework
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