Kink For Dummies
Description
An exciting, safe, and fun guide to a spicier side of sex
Kink For Dummies is a safe, positive, and easy-to-read roadmap to expanding (and exploring!) your sexual and personal horizons. It walks you through kink basics, shattering stigmas and myths as it goes, and explains how you can integrate these unique-to-you desires into your life using a mutual consent and respect framework.
This book offers you multiple avenues to explore and play with your fantasies and provides step-by-step guidance on communication strategies, practices, and agreements you'll need to understand and implement so you can safely discover what you and your partner(s) enjoy the most.
Inside:
- Straightforward and non-judgmental kink fundamentals, including bondage, role playing, fantasy, domination and submission, and more
- Strategies for overcoming common challenges and fears
- Techniques for finding your community and navigating a kinky lifestyle, regardless of your age
A thrilling and informative exploration of mutually rewarding sexual experiences, Kink For Dummies is a fun and shame-free guide to connecting with your sexuality.
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Jaime M. Grant is a queer sex activist, researcher, and relationship coach. She's best known for her sex workshop, Desire Mapping.
Jack Harrison-Quintana is a queer Latino activist, author, and researcher. He works at the intersection of digital advocacy and LGBTQ+ justice.
Content
Introduction 1
Part 1: Getting Started with Kink Basics 5
Chapter 1: Introducing Kink! 7
Chapter 2: Defining Kink 13
Chapter 3: Grounding Kink in Consent 27
Chapter 4: Encountering Kinky Worlds 41
Part 2: Building Your Kinky Life 83
Chapter 5: Discovering and Claiming Your Kinks 85
Chapter 6: Making Your Own Kink Meaning 103
Chapter 7: Honing Your Communication Skills 117
Chapter 8: Creating Safe and Sexy Kink Agreements 141
Chapter 9: Developing Great Aftercare Practices 163
Part 3: Managing Common Challenges 173
Chapter 10: Managing Emotional Vulnerability and Risk 175
Chapter 11: Navigating Kink as a Trauma Survivor 191
Chapter 12: Working Out Struggles in Kink Relationships 211
Part 4: Living Your Best, Sustainable Kinky Life 247
Chapter 13: Finding Kink Community and Great Play Spaces 249
Chapter 14: Coming Out Kinky 265
Chapter 15: Adapting Over Your Long Kinky Life 277
Part 5: The Part of Tens 285
Chapter 16: Ten Hallmarks of a Vibrant Kink Sexuality 287
Chapter 17: Ten Things to Help You Build Your Best Kinky Scenes 291
Chapter 18: Ten Kinksters in History 297
Chapter 19: Ten (or so) Contemporary Kink Trailblazers 303
Appendix A: Glossary 309
Appendix B: Resources 323
Index 333
