
Adoption Unfiltered
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Adoption is not a one-time event but rather a lifetime of experiences, perspectives, and truths that can impact generations. In this deeply honest and necessary book, an adoptee, a birth parent, and an adoptive parent come together to illuminate the often unspoken realities of adoption. Drawing from their own journeys and interviews with adoptees, birth parents, adoptive parents, social workers, therapists, and allies, the authors reveal the complex emotions, challenges, and questions that surround adoption at every stage. Grounded in attachment science, rooted in a commitment to truth and transparency, and shaped by lived experience, this book offers vital insight and guidance for anyone affected by adoption.
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Kelsey Vander Vliet Ranyard is the Director of Advocacy and Policy at AdoptMatch, where she works on public policy issues impacting all adoption-triad members. She's a birth mother who is passionate about raising the standards in adoption to better serve the children, mothers, and families affected by family separation. Adoption has been a monumental part of her entire life: Kelsey is the daughter and granddaughter of adoptees. She has worked at various agencies and law firms in the adoption field and is also a co-host of the first-ever birth-mom podcast headed into its third season, Twisted Sisterhood. Kelsey resides in Northern California with her husband and daughter.
Lori Holden, a veteran parent of two young adults, writes at LavenderLuz.com and hosts the podcast Adoption: The Long View. She's the author of the acclaimed book The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption: Helping Your Child Grow Up Whole (recommended by People magazine in 2021), written with her daughter's birth mom and featured on adoption-agency required-reading lists across the country. She has keynoted and presented at adoption conferences around the US and Canada, and her work has appeared in magazines such as Parenting and Adoptive Families. In 2018, she was honored as an Angel in Adoption® by the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute (CCAI). She lives in Denver, Colorado.
Content
- Intro
- Foreword
- Introduction
- PART I ADOPTEES UNFILTERED
- Chapter 1 Meet the Adoptee Contributors
- Chapter 2 Adoptees' Heartache and Pain
- Chapter 3 In Pursuit of Love . . . Or, Pushing It Away
- Chapter 4 Living Anxious and Alarmed
- Chapter 5 Full of Frustration, Light on Feeling
- Chapter 6 The Tentacles of Classism and Racism in Adoption
- Chapter 7 Religion's Pain Points for Adoptees
- PART II BIRTH PARENTS UNFILTERED
- Chapter 8 Scarcity Unbiased Information and Post-Placement Support
- Chapter 9 Making the "Right" Choice Religion's Role in Relinquishment
- Chapter 10 Emotional Health The Residue of Trauma and Grief
- Chapter 11 Power Dynamics Race, Class, and the Hierarchy of Adoption
- Chapter 12 Birth Parent Challenges in Open Adoption
- Chapter 13 Downstream Effects of Our Decision
- PART III ADOPTIVE PARENTS UNFILTERED
- Chapter 14 Getting to True Openness in Adoption
- Chapter 15 Unacknowledged Grief
- Chapter 16 Insecurity
- Chapter 17 Parenting through the Complexities of Adoption
- Chapter 18 When Religion Hurts Reexamining Religious Adoption Narratives
- Chapter 19 NOT Adopting Amid the Cultural Backdrop of Pronatalism
- Chapter 20 Adoptive Parents and the Dance of Attachment
- PART IV HEALING AND HOPE
- Chapter 21 Supporting Adoptee Maturation Advice for Parents and Other Caregivers (From Sara)
- Chapter 22 Journeying Home Words of Encouragement for Adult Adoptees (From Sara)
- Chapter 23 What Now? How Adoption Must Evolve (From Sara, Kelsey, and Lori)
- Acknowledgments
- Resources
- Notes
- Bibliography
- Index
- About the Authors
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