How to Be Dateable
The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love
Published on 27. February 2025
Book
Hardback
336 pages
978-1-6680-3042-4 (ISBN)
Description
Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out? Find your person with this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you break free from the traps of modern dating and change your approach to love.
As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world and empowering the people within it their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade's worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have learned what it takes to find love in today's dating world. In How to Be Dateable, they'll show you how to take control of your love life and focus on the levers that actually get you results.
Starting with a personalized dating archetypes quiz, this book will give you a richer understanding of your core dating strengths and how to turn around the obstacles that are keeping you from meeting the right people. You will discover how to:
-Feel more optimistic about finding love
-Choose partners who are aligned with your values
-Prioritize what's in your control and release what's not
-Date your way to find the right relationship for you
Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will give you a dating life that can ultimately help you find the I-can't-believe-this-was-possible type of relationship you deserve.
As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world and empowering the people within it their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade's worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have learned what it takes to find love in today's dating world. In How to Be Dateable, they'll show you how to take control of your love life and focus on the levers that actually get you results.
Starting with a personalized dating archetypes quiz, this book will give you a richer understanding of your core dating strengths and how to turn around the obstacles that are keeping you from meeting the right people. You will discover how to:
-Feel more optimistic about finding love
-Choose partners who are aligned with your values
-Prioritize what's in your control and release what's not
-Date your way to find the right relationship for you
Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will give you a dating life that can ultimately help you find the I-can't-believe-this-was-possible type of relationship you deserve.
Reviews / Votes
"Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are the real deal when it comes to dating experts. Their big-sister style advice is just what we need in an age where dating has never sucked harder. They cut right to the core of the dating malaise that has plagued millennials and gen Z since the invention of the dating app. How to be Dateable is warm and thoughtful and the antidote to dating fatigue." -Greg Behrendt, coauthor of the NYT bestselling He's Just Not That Into You "How to Be Dateable demonstrates clearly that you already have all the tools that you need to date successfully. This book will simply help you unlock them. A must-read for anyone hoping to find their person."- Mark Groves: Human Connection Specialist, Author, Speaker, Coach, Podcast Host and Founder of Create The Love "An empowering read to help you find your person." - Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love Given the complexities and challenges of today's modern dating landscape, confidence in dating skills is a must. With concrete tips and real-world examples, How To Be Dateabledelivers on their promise to "stop falling for the traps" and "start falling in love." - Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD, faculty at Northwestern University, bestselling author of Love Every Day, and host of the podcast, Reimagining Love "Julie and Yue are fiercely intelligent, warm-hearted chroniclers of the path to love. In How To Be Dateable, you won't find glib answers or gimmicky advice; instead, you'll find real wisdom, game-changing insights, and tools that actually work. I'm so grateful that their book is out in the world. I can't recommend it highly enough." -Ken Page, LCSW, psychotherapist, host of the Deeper Dating Podcast, and author of the best selling book Deeper DatingMore details
Language
English
Place of publication
United States
Publishing group
Simon & Schuster
Product notice
sewn/stitched
Cloth over boards
Dimensions
Height: 231 mm
Width: 163 mm
Thickness: 33 mm
Weight
499 gr
ISBN-13
978-1-6680-3042-4 (9781668030424)
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Schweitzer Classification
Other editions
Additional editions
Julie Krafchick | Yue Xu
How to Be Dateable
The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love
E-Book
01/2025
1st Edition
Simon Element
€14.83
Available for download
Persons
Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are the cohosts and creators of Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by The New York Times, HuffPost, Oprah Daily, and more. They're also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Julie brings her background in human-centered design and qualitative research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach. Together you can find them at DateablePodcast.com and @DateablePodcast.