
Gay Man Talking
All the Conversations We Never Had
Daniel Harding(Author)
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Published on 21. September 2022
Book
Paperback/Softback
288 pages
978-1-83997-094-8 (ISBN)
Description
'Essential reading' LORRAINE KELLY
'Hugely relatable' PAUL BAKER
'Read this book!' JAMES MAX
Son, Brother, Gay Best Friend. Lover, Enemy, Homo. Twink, Otter, Bear.
For many gay men, the relationships they have with other people are coloured by stereotypes, shame, and internalised beliefs that are often left unchallenged. Is being the 'gay best friend' really as fun and inclusive as people think? Sure, coming out to your parents is the hard part, but what happens next? And what if you're not the sexually promiscuous party boy everyone assumes you to be?
Through candid and humorous conversations with those closest to him, Daniel Harding unpacks modern gay relationships - from parents, siblings and friends, through to lovers, enemies, technology and ourselves - to explore how it's the relationships around us, breaking us down and making us back up, that are our defining moments.
Combining poignant and entertaining anecdotes with powerful interviews with other gay men and influential figures, alongside valuable insight from behavioural expert Judi James, this wise and witty book will help you to challenge the relationships you have with others - and yourself - allowing you to be truly proud of who you are.
'Hugely relatable' PAUL BAKER
'Read this book!' JAMES MAX
Son, Brother, Gay Best Friend. Lover, Enemy, Homo. Twink, Otter, Bear.
For many gay men, the relationships they have with other people are coloured by stereotypes, shame, and internalised beliefs that are often left unchallenged. Is being the 'gay best friend' really as fun and inclusive as people think? Sure, coming out to your parents is the hard part, but what happens next? And what if you're not the sexually promiscuous party boy everyone assumes you to be?
Through candid and humorous conversations with those closest to him, Daniel Harding unpacks modern gay relationships - from parents, siblings and friends, through to lovers, enemies, technology and ourselves - to explore how it's the relationships around us, breaking us down and making us back up, that are our defining moments.
Combining poignant and entertaining anecdotes with powerful interviews with other gay men and influential figures, alongside valuable insight from behavioural expert Judi James, this wise and witty book will help you to challenge the relationships you have with others - and yourself - allowing you to be truly proud of who you are.
Reviews / Votes
Whether you're gay, not sure or know someone who's gay... read this book! Daniel's candid account of his experiences will help you understand, empathise or make you realise that you're not alone. Sometimes funny, often awkward but always honest this is the account you need to read. -- James Max, presenter on TalkTV, columnist and business advisor Daniel's book is essential reading - full of such wise advice, help and support. It's going to bring people together and will change lives. -- Lorraine Kelly CBE, journalist and TV Presenter Hugely relatable and spoken from both the heart and the head, Gay Man Talking offers frank and funny insights into navigating the challenges around growing up, finding love and self-acceptance that many young gay men face today. -- Professor Paul Baker, author of Outrageous! The Story of Section 28 and Britain's Battle for LGBT Education A very personal, very practical guide to coming out! Be proud. -- Laura Whitmore, TV and radio presenterMore details
Language
English
Place of publication
London
United Kingdom
Target group
College/higher education
Professional and scholarly
Product notice
Paperback (UK-trade)
Illustrations
N/A
Dimensions
Height: 212 mm
Width: 133 mm
Thickness: 24 mm
Weight
294 gr
ISBN-13
978-1-83997-094-8 (9781839970948)
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E-Book
09/2022
Jessica Kingsley Publishers
€16.99
Available for download
Person
Daniel Harding is a journalist, presenter and news producer. He regularly writes about LGBTQIA+ issues and his writing has appeared in Attitude, Cosmopolitan, The London Economic and The Mirror. Gay Man Talking is his first book.
Content
Introduction
Parents
Sibling
Friend
Body Issues - A Letter
Bully
Straight Man
Sex
Phone - A Letter
Love
Couple
Age - A Rant
Dating
Role Model
Bad Gay - A Confession
Myself
Parents
Sibling
Friend
Body Issues - A Letter
Bully
Straight Man
Sex
Phone - A Letter
Love
Couple
Age - A Rant
Dating
Role Model
Bad Gay - A Confession
Myself