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This book is free of psychobabble and has been written by a qualified and experienced solution focused counsellor to give you a practical and workable solution to relationship issues. This book will show you not only how to effectively go about the business of healing your relationship but will also;
• Explain why people behave the way they do
• Identify where most people go wrong and what to do about it
• Help you decide what the real issues are and if the relationship should be saved
• Give you a practical intensive care plan to help heal the identified issues
• Teach you how to deal with people and situations that threaten your relationship
• Guide you in how to move on with dignity from a failed relationship
• Give you strategies to heal your heart and get on with your life
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978-1-925471-08-3 (9781925471083)
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Leonie Ruth Schilling is a very experienced counsellor who writes with authority bringing a wealth of both academic and experiential knowledge to her work with couples and individuals. Leonie also teaches the Diploma of Counselling. Teaching counselling ensures Leonie's knowledge and practice is always up to date. In addition to teaching and training, Leonie runs a thriving private practice which moves clients forward in all areas, including personal counselling, couples and family therapy, grief and loss, mediation and employment counselling. Leonie is also a qualified Early Childhood Educator and works with children and youths of all age groups. Leonie is a published author who has written Relationship Intensive Care: A practical guide to saving and maintaining your relationship and has written a weekly column for The Messenger Magazine for over nine years.
Chapter 1. Disposable Spouses
. The Culture of Cut and Run
. People are not Penguins
. People are organisms
. There are no knights in shining armour
. Why people don't rescue themselves
. The case for pre - cohabitation conversations
Chapter 2. Why things go wrong and why they don't get better
. Thinking things will get better in time
. Playing the passive aggressive game
. Building resentments
. The Artful Dodger
. The poached frog syndrome
. Developing patterns of dysfunctional communication
. Failure to plan for inevitable changes
Chapter 3. The critical steps on the path to healing
. The mandatory conditions for success
. Becoming conscious
. Become a fortune teller
. Forgive it or Forget it
. Stop Spreading the news
. Don't believe the evidence
Chapter 4. The Autopsy
. What are the diseases making your relationship sick?
. Should your relationship be taken off life support?
. Your home should be your sanctuary
. What is a deal breaker
. Due consideration
. Honesty and transparency - why they are important
Chapter 5. Making the commitment to change
. The Discussion
. The negotiation
. The Contract
. Getting your head in the game
. The Review
. The Tune up
. The Outcomes
. When you know better, you do better
Chapter 6. The interlopers
. What if the kids are calling the shots?
. Setting personal boundaries
. Managing in-laws and extended family
. Friends - managing each other's tribe
. Careers and home management
. Social Media
Chapter 7. Uncoupling
. Trial separation
. Moving On
. The trap of only remembering the good stuff
. Strategies to recover from a broken heart
. Take the lesson and move on
. A truth about life
. Is there more help?
