Resilient Relationships
Techniques for Surviving Hyper-individualism, Social Isolation, and a Mental Health Crisis
1st Edition
Published on 14. April 2023
280 pages
978-1-000-86484-7 (ISBN)
Description
"Christian and Caroline Heim have written a wise and valuable book on how to make marriages last." - Roy Baumeister, President of International Positive Psychology Association
Designed to be used as a companion to couple therapy, this book is based on a trailblazing study of over 1400 individuals. It presents over 75 techniques to help relationships thrive in the long-term and provides insights into the challenges faced by contemporary couples.
Through in-depth interviews, this book takes pertinent questions from young couples and puts them to couples who have been together for decades. The time-tested secrets of thriving couples are presented in a new guise for a new generation. Capturing the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic, the study includes people from 52 countries and is the largest cross-sectional, multi-national study on long-term relationships to date. It highlights the dynamic and protective factors that lead to relationship longevity, as well as societal pressures, to guide therapists on how to manage these with their clients. The authors uncover how long-term relationships promote resilience, emotional, mental, and physical health, and protect against loneliness and harmful behaviours.
Therapists and couples need to know what goes right in long-lasting relationships. Providing essential data and practical skills for psychologists, counsellors and other professionals, this book is a must-read for anyone working with couples to explore and understand what leads to resilient relationships in a harsh, complex world.
Designed to be used as a companion to couple therapy, this book is based on a trailblazing study of over 1400 individuals. It presents over 75 techniques to help relationships thrive in the long-term and provides insights into the challenges faced by contemporary couples.
Through in-depth interviews, this book takes pertinent questions from young couples and puts them to couples who have been together for decades. The time-tested secrets of thriving couples are presented in a new guise for a new generation. Capturing the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic, the study includes people from 52 countries and is the largest cross-sectional, multi-national study on long-term relationships to date. It highlights the dynamic and protective factors that lead to relationship longevity, as well as societal pressures, to guide therapists on how to manage these with their clients. The authors uncover how long-term relationships promote resilience, emotional, mental, and physical health, and protect against loneliness and harmful behaviours.
Therapists and couples need to know what goes right in long-lasting relationships. Providing essential data and practical skills for psychologists, counsellors and other professionals, this book is a must-read for anyone working with couples to explore and understand what leads to resilient relationships in a harsh, complex world.
Reviews / Votes
"All three parts of the book offer insights for clinicians, researchers, and people interested in understanding and helping couples achieve relationship quality and longevity. Although the book is written with some mental health professional jargon, the way it is written still affords lay readers and real-life couples valuable wisdom."Journal of Marital and Family Therapy
"Christian and Caroline Heim have written a wise and valuable book on how to make marriages last. Their insights are strongly grounded in evidence, including interviews with hundreds of individuals and special emphasis on couples who remain happy together after 40 years of marriage. In this era of longer lives and shorter relationships, how to achieve a resilient romantic relationship is a vital key to happiness, and this book offers plenty of specific and helpful advice. Anyone looking for a long-lasting relationship will find something useful in these pages."
Roy Baumeister, Professor, President of International Positive Psychology Association, Harvard University
"As a practicing marriage and family therapist, I found myself rolling up my sleeves and warming up my creative energies by perusing the suggested techniques in the final section of this book. There is some gold to be found here. I found Heim and Heim's collection of techniques to be versatile and transtheoretical. ... The authors effectively illustrate the impact of hyper-individualism on relationships and emphasize the importance of attachment, altruism, and connection in fostering resilient partnerships. Their research findings, particularly the "glue-secrets" of long-lasting couples, align well with established theories in couples therapy and offer both validation and inspiration for couples and therapists alike."
Journal of Family Theory and Review
"Evidence-based and practical, the Heims provide time-tested advice and perspectives on long term relationships that can augment couples therapy or act as a stand-alone starting place for couples interested in strengthening their relationship. With so much emphasis in modern psychotherapy on individuals doing "what is best" for themselves this is a refreshing reminder that healthy love relationships require give and take and that feeding the relationship can also be the thing that contributes, in large measure, to what makes an individual happy and healthy."
Steven M. Harris, Ph.D., LMFT, Past Editor - Journal of Marital and Family Therapy
More details
Edition
1. Auflage
Language
English
Place of publication
London
United Kingdom
Publishing group
Taylor & Francis Ltd
Target group
Professional and scholarly
Illustrations
10 Tables, black and white; 2 Line drawings, black and white; 2 Illustrations, black and white
ISBN-13
978-1-000-86484-7 (9781000864847)
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Christian Heim | Caroline Heim
Resilient Relationships
Techniques for Surviving Hyper-individualism, Social Isolation, and a Mental Health Crisis
Book
04/2023
1st Edition
Routledge
€186.40
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Christian Heim | Caroline Heim
Resilient Relationships
Techniques for Surviving Hyper-individualism, Social Isolation, and a Mental Health Crisis
Book
04/2023
1st Edition
Routledge
€55.40
Shipment within 10-20 days
Persons
Christian Heim, FRANZCP, PhD, is Clinical Director of Tasmania North Mental Health Services, a senior lecturer at the University of Queensland, and a Churchill Fellow who gives keynotes internationally on preventative mental health. In private psychiatry, he subspecialized in war-related and severe childhood sexual trauma, and couple therapy where mental illness is prominent.
Caroline Heim, PhD, is an associate professor at Queensland University of Technology. She has published two books in theatre studies. Caroline gives keynotes internationally, and her numerous articles cover various topics from global audiences to the mental health of her university students. Caroline is a certified Lifeline crisis counsellor and facilitator.
Caroline Heim, PhD, is an associate professor at Queensland University of Technology. She has published two books in theatre studies. Caroline gives keynotes internationally, and her numerous articles cover various topics from global audiences to the mental health of her university students. Caroline is a certified Lifeline crisis counsellor and facilitator.
Content
Introduction Part I: The context 1. Resilient relationships versus hyper-individualism: selfish genes, altruism and attachment 2. Resilient relationships and mental health: attachment underlying both 3. Resilient relationships versus social isolation: effects of screen technology, atomization and distancing Part II: Our study 4. Survey findings: couples surviving COVID-19 5. Interview and survey findings: couples thriving 40+ years Part II: The techniques 6. Techniques to build pro-relational values 7. Techniques to build resilient relationships
