Disappoint Me
A funny and clever new novel from the author of Polari-Prize-winning, BELLIES
Published on 23. January 2025
288 pages
978-1-5299-3064-1 (ISBN)
Description
A funny, moving and poignant exploration of modern romance and the allure of domesticity from the Polari-prize-winning author of Bellies
Chosen as a 'Best Book of 2025' by Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Stylist, Elle, Dazed, Vogue, AnOther, and GQ
'One of the UK's most perceptive young novelists with her finger firmly on the pulse of contemporary behaviour' Guardian
'Riveting, funny and devastating' Shon Faye, bestselling author of The Transgender Issue
Max didn't mean to fall for Vincent - a corporate lawyer and hobby baker whose trad friendship group are a world away from her life as a trans woman. But after years of bad dates and dysphoria he's a breath of fresh air. Their connection seems genuine, his care feels real.
But Vincent is carrying his own baggage. On his gap year in Thailand a decade prior, he vies for the attention of a gorgeous traveller, Alex, with secrets of her own. Is Vincent really the new face of the Enlightened Man, or will the ghosts of his past sabotage his and Max's happiness?
Disappoint Me is an incisive reckoning with forgiveness and the complexity of modern relationships, told with Nicola Dinan's trademark wit and heart.
Praise for Disappoint Me:
'An absolute gift...I loved it' Oisin McKenna, author of Evenings and Weekends
'Nicola Dinan writes like some kind of demigod' Torrey Peters, author of Detransition, Baby
'A riveting, hilarious and totally devastating love story... will have you gripped and sets Dinan as a literary voice to watch' Elle, 'Best Books of 2025'
'Pacy, perfectly pitched and emotionally honest: I loved every page' Stylist, 'Best Books of 2025'
'Sharply insightful, warm and heartbreaking' Cosmopolitan, 'Best Books of 2025'
'Nicola Dinan will be studied in years to come as one of the modern greats. . . The kind of writing you'll be talking about for weeks after you've finished reading' nb Magazine
Chosen as a 'Best Book of 2025' by Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Stylist, Elle, Dazed, Vogue, AnOther, and GQ
'One of the UK's most perceptive young novelists with her finger firmly on the pulse of contemporary behaviour' Guardian
'Riveting, funny and devastating' Shon Faye, bestselling author of The Transgender Issue
Max didn't mean to fall for Vincent - a corporate lawyer and hobby baker whose trad friendship group are a world away from her life as a trans woman. But after years of bad dates and dysphoria he's a breath of fresh air. Their connection seems genuine, his care feels real.
But Vincent is carrying his own baggage. On his gap year in Thailand a decade prior, he vies for the attention of a gorgeous traveller, Alex, with secrets of her own. Is Vincent really the new face of the Enlightened Man, or will the ghosts of his past sabotage his and Max's happiness?
Disappoint Me is an incisive reckoning with forgiveness and the complexity of modern relationships, told with Nicola Dinan's trademark wit and heart.
Praise for Disappoint Me:
'An absolute gift...I loved it' Oisin McKenna, author of Evenings and Weekends
'Nicola Dinan writes like some kind of demigod' Torrey Peters, author of Detransition, Baby
'A riveting, hilarious and totally devastating love story... will have you gripped and sets Dinan as a literary voice to watch' Elle, 'Best Books of 2025'
'Pacy, perfectly pitched and emotionally honest: I loved every page' Stylist, 'Best Books of 2025'
'Sharply insightful, warm and heartbreaking' Cosmopolitan, 'Best Books of 2025'
'Nicola Dinan will be studied in years to come as one of the modern greats. . . The kind of writing you'll be talking about for weeks after you've finished reading' nb Magazine
Reviews / Votes
A riveting tale of finding lasting companionship. Despite the title, it's unlikely to disappoint. * Observer * Disappoint Me is a refreshingly unsentimental and moving exploration of millennial ennui, prickly friendships and toxic masculinity. It eschews essentialism by depicting modern relationships and the flow of power and secrecy with astuteness and compassion, cementing Dinan as one of the UK's most perceptive young novelists with her finger firmly on the pulse of contemporary behaviour. * Guardian * Nicola Dinan's observations are so razor-sharp that you're sure you've met her characters: the self-important East London poet, the over-friendly girl in the bathroom queue, the gap-year student convinced he's worldly after two weeks on a silent retreat in India. For this reason, every description and bit of dialogue is delicious to read, and if she nailed it in her debut novel Bellies, she's mastered it in Disappoint Me. The book follows a blossoming relationship between twentysomethings Max and Vincent in present-day London, peppered with flashbacks to Vincent's first relationship with a trans woman in his teenage years. It is pacy, perfectly pitched and emotionally honest: I loved every page. * Stylist, 'Best Books of 2025' * A story of millennial fears and forgiveness, reckoning with past mistakes, stylishly interweaving two compelling voices as they unravel their own love story. Disappoint Me follows Dinan's debut novel, Bellies, which is another example of deeply empathetic writing and elastic endings that stay with you long after. * Vogue, 'Best Books of 2025' * As the title indicates, it explores the fundamental point that building a sustainable love for someone involves them disappointing you: eventually, the dreams and expectations that we attach to a person will be somewhat compromised. I think the novel explores that so amazingly. * Shon Faye, Guardian * Disappoint Me is anything but a disappointing follow-up in its smart exploration of heteronormativity and the weight of expectation. * Dazed, 'The 12 Most Anticipated Novels of 2025' * Sharply insightful, warm and heartbreaking. * Cosmopolitan, 'Best Books of 2025' * The author of the award-winning Bellies returns with another insightful dissection of millennial life ... tackling tricky friendships and toxic masculinity. * Harper's Bazaar * A riveting, hilarious and totally devastating love story... This exploration of millennial angst, race, and trans panic will have you gripped and sets Dinan as a literary voice to watch. * Elle, 'Best Books of 2025' * A very modern love story and Dinan is very much the woman to write it. * GQ, 'Best Books of 2025' *More details
Edition
New edition
Language
English
Place of publication
London
United Kingdom
Publishing group
Transworld Publishers Ltd
Edition type
New edition
File size
0,84 MB
ISBN-13
978-1-5299-3064-1 (9781529930641)
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Nicola Dinan grew up in Hong Kong and Malaysia and now lives in London. Bellies, her debut, was nominated for six literary prizes and won the Polari First Book Prize. Disappoint Me, her second novel, won the New Adult Book Prize.
