
Imperfect Control
Our Lifelong Struggles With Power and Surrender
Judith Viorst(Author)
Simon & Schuster (Publisher)
Published on 13. January 2003
Book
Paperback/Softback
448 pages
978-0-684-84814-3 (ISBN)
Description
In her remarkable national bestseller, Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst explored how we are shaped by the various losses we experience throughout our lives. Now, in her wise and perceptive new book, Imperfect Control, she shows us how our sense of self and all our important relationships are colored by our struggles over control: over wanting it and taking it, loving it and fearing it, and figuring out when the time has come to surrender it.
Writing with compassion, acute psychological insight, and a touch of her trademark humor, Viorst invites us to contemplate the limits and possibilities of our control. She shows us how our lives can be shaped by our actions and our choices. She reminds us, too, that we sometimes should choose to let go. And she encourages us to find our own best balance between power and surrender.
Writing with compassion, acute psychological insight, and a touch of her trademark humor, Viorst invites us to contemplate the limits and possibilities of our control. She shows us how our lives can be shaped by our actions and our choices. She reminds us, too, that we sometimes should choose to let go. And she encourages us to find our own best balance between power and surrender.
Reviews / Votes
Judith S. Wallerstein author of The Good Marriage Imperfect Control is a brilliant book and an immense pleasure to read. Connie Lauerman Chicago Tribune Imperfect Control continues the kind of work that won Viorst a special commendation from the American Psychiatric Association...smart, lighthearted, and down-to-earth.... The Boston Herald [U]nlike pop gurus who seek to lead us down a path toward some truth we may never even envision, much less attain, Viorst is content with walking alongside us, pointing out the lurking ruts and pitfalls....She makes a great buddy.More details
Language
English
Place of publication
New York
United States
Target group
College/higher education
Product notice
Paperback (trade)
Dimensions
Height: 216 mm
Width: 140 mm
Thickness: 27 mm
Weight
631 gr
ISBN-13
978-0-684-84814-3 (9780684848143)
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E-Book
10/2014
1st Edition
Simon + Schuster LLC
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Person
Judith Viorst is the author of the beloved Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, which has sold some four million copies; the Lulu books, including Lulu and the Brontosaurus; the New York Times bestseller Necessary Losses; four musicals; and poetry for children and adults. Her most recent books of poetry include What Are You Glad About? What Are You Mad About? and Nearing Ninety. She lives in Washington, DC.
Content
Contents
Introduction
1 How Free to Be?
2 The Taste of Control
3 Taking Possession of Ourselves
4 The Power of Sex
5 Who Controls the Couple?
6 Permanent Parenthood
7 Bossing and Being Bossed
8 Victims and Survivors
9 Varieties of Surrender
10 In Control of Our Death
Last Words
Notes and Elaborations
Bibliography
Acknowledgments
Index
Introduction
1 How Free to Be?
2 The Taste of Control
3 Taking Possession of Ourselves
4 The Power of Sex
5 Who Controls the Couple?
6 Permanent Parenthood
7 Bossing and Being Bossed
8 Victims and Survivors
9 Varieties of Surrender
10 In Control of Our Death
Last Words
Notes and Elaborations
Bibliography
Acknowledgments
Index