
First-Time Parenting Journeys
Expectations and Realities
Cambridge University Press
Published on 10. July 2025
Book
Paperback/Softback
223 pages
978-1-009-07704-0 (ISBN)
Description
All too often heterosexual first-time parents are treated as the unmarked norm within research on reproduction. First-Time Parenting Journeys maps out what it means to be situated within the norm, while providing a critical account of how social norms about parenthood shape, regulate, and potentially delimit experiences of new parenthood for heterosexual couples. Based on qualitative longitudinal research, this book tells the story of journeys to parenthood, highlighting the impact of gender norms, moral claims, emotion work, and generativity. While drawing on Australian data, the critical conceptual framework has broader applicability across Western contexts in terms of understanding normative family structures and parenting practices. By focusing on expectations about, and the reality of, new parenthood, it explicates the ways in which institutionalised norms about parenthood are internalised and explores what this can tell us about the broader contours of parenthood discourses.
Reviews / Votes
'Ever considered the gap between expectations of parenthood and the reality? This book offers insights for readers contemplating parenthood, while giving social scientists and their students glimpses into how feelings absorb social norms into personal family values. Moving, readable, and methodologically rigorous, this book is a rare gem!' Fiona Tasker, Birkbeck University of London, UK 'Riggs and Bartholomaeus turn the spotlight on the taken-for-granteds of heterosexual parenthood, which goes beyond the usual 'transition to parenthood' scholarship. They use innovative theory to investigate the affective dimension of first-time parenthood; and, along with an intergenerational perspective, the book makes a highly novel and thought-provoking contribution to scholarship on kinship and belonging, parenthood and reproductive decision-making.' Tracy Morison, author of Queer Kinship and Men's Pathways to ParenthoodMore details
Language
English
Place of publication
Cambridge
United Kingdom
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Paperback (trade)
Illustrations
Worked examples or Exercises
Dimensions
Height: 228 mm
Width: 153 mm
Thickness: 15 mm
Weight
334 gr
ISBN-13
978-1-009-07704-0 (9781009077040)
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Persons
Damien W. Riggs is a Professor of Psychology at Flinders University, Australia. He is also a Fellow of the Australian Psychological Society and a psychotherapist who specialises in work with trans children. He has authored more than twenty books, including Diverse Pathways to Parenthood: From Narratives to Practice (2020). Clare Bartholomaeus is an Adjunct Research Fellow at Flinders University, Australia. Her previous books include Home and Away: Mothers and Babies in Institutional Spaces (with Kathleen Connellan, Clemence Due, and Damien Riggs, 2021) and Transgender People and Education (with Damien Riggs, 2017).
Author
Flinders University of South Australia
Flinders University of South Australia
Content
1. Introduction; 2. Undertaking a Qualitative Longitudinal research study with intending parents; 3. Motherhood moralities; 4. Birthing experiences; 5. Emotion work in the transition to motherhood; 6. Development of a parental identity; 7. Views about having more children; 8. Changes in the couple relationship over time; 9. Grandparents navigating shifts in relationships and identity; 10. Reflecting on the study findings and experience.