
Wanna F*ck?
Bel Olid(Author)
Polity Press
1st Edition
Published on 30. May 2025
Book
Paperback/Softback
132 pages
978-1-5095-6476-7 (ISBN)
Description
Following our desires, sharing pleasure: sounds easy, right? And yet our sexualities are conditioned by expectations, prejudices and taboos that make it difficult to listen to our own bodies, let alone anyone else's. Bel Olid clears away the taboos and invites readers to explore pathways to more connected sexualities and more pleasurable relationships. Because perhaps the first thing we need to learn about sex is to unlearn. Unlearn the desire we've been taught we must feel, unlearn the shame. Forget the bodies that we've been obliged to like, forget the behaviour presented as the only type possible. And then, with fresh eyes, look deep inside and ask ourselves what we want, what we like, what we feel like discovering. Listening to our desire, and listening to the other person too. Daring ourselves to doubt, explore, make mistakes, stop at any time. Let's step into the ocean of possibilities.
Reviews / Votes
"Wanna Fuck? by Bel Olid is a bold exploration of sexuality that challenges societal norms and empowers readers to embrace their authentic desires. This book offers essential guidance for anyone seeking to cultivate more fulfilling and respectful intimate connections, whether you're questioning your own desires or striving for deeper relationships with others. Dive into this empowering read and discover the transformative potential of embracing diverse sexualities and enthusiastic consent!"Jessica Fern, author of Polysecure and Polywise
"As a sex therapist, I've found that unlearning can often be more transformative than learning. Wanna Fuck is an excellent guide for renovating your relationship with sexuality, helping you embrace pleasure with curiosity and empowerment."
Erin Davidson, MA, RCC, CST, author of two books Thriving in Non-Monogamy and Break Through the Breakup
More details
Language
English
Place of publication
Oxford
United Kingdom
Publishing group
John Wiley and Sons Ltd
Dimensions
Height: 208 mm
Width: 137 mm
Thickness: 12 mm
Weight
194 gr
ISBN-13
978-1-5095-6476-7 (9781509564767)
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Persons
Bel Olid is a Catalan writer and translator who stopped trying to be the woman the world demands and started trying just...to be.
Content
map
Penknife
sex
sexualities
LGBTIQ+
life
foreplay
fucking
consent
enthusiasm
beauty
expectations
vibrator
toys
sex education
care
love
affections
end
horizon
Appendix:
how d'you wanna fuck?
Penknife
sex
sexualities
LGBTIQ+
life
foreplay
fucking
consent
enthusiasm
beauty
expectations
vibrator
toys
sex education
care
love
affections
end
horizon
Appendix:
how d'you wanna fuck?