I Want You to Be

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"What we have here is not so much prayer but what I have experienced as a profound, beautifully expressed, and translated propaedeutic to prayer. For, in my prayerful reading of it . . . I found it to be an extraordinarily 'pure'/unadulerated example of theologia secunda as, e.g., distinguished from theologia prima." -Worship

"Seeking to apply his understanding of love in beneficial ways for our culture, Halik offers a diagnosis of our times throughout this book, rather than in a designated section. Echoing Teilhard de Chardin's assertion that love alone can unify all without destruction, Halik sees the need for a fundamental, unifying spiritual vision in the West, particularly in Europe." -Reading Religion

"In reading this fine book, I have come to see [Halik] as a theologian for Friends (Quakers). . . . I Want You to Be is all about love-not the love of adolescent infatuation or romantic fiction, not the love of the narcissist, nor the love of possessions or their acquisition-the deep love in which the ego is transcended and we come into the power that unites without destroying or appropriating. . . . Halik carries the reader gently and surely through reflections and meditations toward this end, yielding no final answers (as he warns in the first chapter) but only an "interim report" of his own journey. It is well worth accompanying him." -Friends Journal

"A one-time member of the Czech underground and advisor to Vaclav Havel, Halik explores the theological understandings of love, grounding his discussion in scholarship yet writing in a style that is accessible to nonspecialists. . . . With this important book Halik joins the conversation taken up by Charles Taylor in A Secular Age and Martha Nussbaum in Political Emotions: Why Love Matters for Justice. In addition to exploring the concept of love, Halik weaves important autobiographical elements that add personal depth to the conversation." -Choice

"Fluently translated by Gerald Turner, Halik's book is a masterfully written meditation on love, the God of love, and the implications that the love of God has for the Christian life. Eschewing easy or simplistic answers to the questions it poses, it seeks to shake believers from complacency and to instill in them an attitude of greater openness to the world and to the God who is its ground of being." -Catholic Library World

"I think of Tomas Halik as I think of C.S. Lewis, Thomas Merton, and Henri Nouwen-a rare combination of intellect along with an uncommon commitment never to betray the gene that unites us all as children of God." -Doris Donnelly, John Carroll University

"Tomas Halik is building a broad community of readers in Europe, between various religions, disciplines, cultures, and nations. He writes at a level higher than our best spiritual writers but does not write as an academic theologian despite the fact that he knows that kind of literature well. Halik's message of religious tolerance and understanding, against the background of European secularization, reflects a new voice for an American audience." -Richard Rohr, O.F.M., Center for Action and Contemplation

"In this luminous book, Tomas Halik embodies St. Paul's description of love-as patient, as kind, as bearing and enduring all things-in providing wise and gentle accompaniment to all those, believers and nonbelievers alike, who are seekers of transcendence in our perplexing times. In his exploration of the meaning of love of God and love of one's enemy, he mines insights not only from familiar figures such as Eckhart, Kierkegaard, and Levinas, but from surprising sources including Feuerbach, Marx, and Nietzsche. I Want You to Be adds to a body of work in which Halik has responded to Charles Taylor's historical-sociological-philosophical analysis of our 'secular age' with his own penetrating theological, spiritual, and psychological diagnosis of the conditions of post-secularity." -William A. Barbieri, Catholic University of America

"Seldom have I read a book that prompted me to think about the mystery of God's love in such surprising and delightful new ways. By turns profound, challenging, and unsettling, Tomas Halik's new book is also a rarity in theological and spiritual discourse in that it is beautifully written, clearly articulated, and wonderfully inviting." -James Martin, S.J., author of Jesus: A Pilgrimage

"Tomas Halik recovers the old insight of the church fathers that faith should be seen as a journey rather than a fixed dwelling. His meditation on this is full of fresh insights that renew old truths and help us make surprising, biblical sense of our bafflement before the existential issues of faith. This is a book for our age." -Charles Taylor, emeritus, McGill University