When Parenting Isn't Perfect
Leaving Room for Grace in a Culture of Impossible Standards
Published on 27. July 2017
Book
Paperback/Softback
224 pages
978-0-310-34833-7 (ISBN)
Description
Perfection is the enemy of parenting. Jim Daly sees and hears from mothers and fathers trying hard to pursue perfection. They listen to the best experts and read all the right books. When someone gives them a "World's Best Mom" or "No. 1 Dad" coffee mug, they want it to be true. And they want their children to pursue perfection, too.
It's admirable for parents to be the very best moms and dads they can be for their children. But sometimes in so doing, they leave grace behind-both for themselves and their children. Jim believes that our quest for perfection, a quest that he believes is particularly strong among Christians, runs counter to God's own boundless gift of grace. We can become Pharisaical parents, quoting endless rules and holding everyone to impossible standards. But God doesn't want us, and our kids don't need us, to be perfect. As parents, we're called to simply do our best. And when we fail-which we will-we're called to try again tomorrow.
Though he's the President of Focus on the Family, Jim does not promise that his book will be a catalyst for a perfect family. But it can help point the way toward a good family-one that feels safe and warm; one filled with love and laughter. This book will encourage mothers and fathers to embrace the messiness of parenthood and show grace to their own less-than-ideal children. Jim, through his own experiences, expertise, and array of stories, will lead both moms and dads to a better understanding of what being a good family is all about.
It's admirable for parents to be the very best moms and dads they can be for their children. But sometimes in so doing, they leave grace behind-both for themselves and their children. Jim believes that our quest for perfection, a quest that he believes is particularly strong among Christians, runs counter to God's own boundless gift of grace. We can become Pharisaical parents, quoting endless rules and holding everyone to impossible standards. But God doesn't want us, and our kids don't need us, to be perfect. As parents, we're called to simply do our best. And when we fail-which we will-we're called to try again tomorrow.
Though he's the President of Focus on the Family, Jim does not promise that his book will be a catalyst for a perfect family. But it can help point the way toward a good family-one that feels safe and warm; one filled with love and laughter. This book will encourage mothers and fathers to embrace the messiness of parenthood and show grace to their own less-than-ideal children. Jim, through his own experiences, expertise, and array of stories, will lead both moms and dads to a better understanding of what being a good family is all about.
Reviews / Votes
As a parent, I know it's easy to feel alone in your worries, shortcomings, and failures, assuming that everyone else has it all together. In this incredibly timely book, Jim Daly offers a much-needed shot of grace to stressed-out parents everywhere and reminds all of us that messy is often perfectly okay, and even beautiful, in God's eyes. When Parenting Isn't Perfect is an absolute must-read for families everywhere. * REV. SAMUEL RODRIGUEZ, president of the National Hispanic Christian Leadership Conference (NHCLC) * As the president of Focus on the Family, Jim Daly lives and breathes parenting, and he truly understands the challenges parents face today. In When Parenting Isn't Perfect, Jim has written a book that all parents, regardless of their season of life, are and will be high-fiving about, since they all know it's true: perfect parenting is just not possible. * BRAD LOMENICK, former president of Catalyst and author of H3 Leadership and The Catalyst Leader * Jim Daly has done a great job in reminding parents that perfection is not only unattainable but harmful in the journey of parenting. God's grace is available in abundance for good reason: we all need it. Perfectionism is slow suicide! * DR. KEVIN LEMAN, New York Times bestselling author of Have a New Kid by Friday * This book is long overdue. Many moms and dads today are beating themselves up because they are not perfect. This book shows parenting for what it is---imperfect. It highlights the beauty of imperfection and lets parents off the hook, so that they can focus on the tangible truths and realities of parenting. A must-read for every parent. My friend Jim Daly has not only nailed this topic; I've seen him live it out with his own children. * MITCH TEMPLE, licensed marriage and family therapist, author, and executive director of The Fatherhood Commission *More details
Language
English
Place of publication
Grand Rapids
United States
Dimensions
Height: 213 mm
Width: 140 mm
Thickness: 13 mm
Weight
320 gr
ISBN-13
978-0-310-34833-7 (9780310348337)
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Schweitzer Classification
Other editions
Additional editions
E-Book
06/2017
Zondervan
€8.99
Available for download
Persons
Jim Daly is the president and CEO of Focus on the Family. Daly has received the 2008 World Children's Center Humanitarian Award and the 2009 Children's Hunger Fund Children's Champion Award. He has appeared on such television programs as ABC "World News Tonight" and PBS' "Religion & Ethics"; and been featured in Time, The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, USA Today and Newsweek, which named him one of the top 10 next-generation evangelical leaders of influence. Daly and his wife have two sons and reside in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Visit: www.focusonthefamily.com.