
Crooked Letter i
Coming Out in the South
NewSouth Books (Publisher)
Will be published approx. on 1. March 2016
Book
Paperback/Softback
208 pages
978-1-58838-313-6 (ISBN)
Description
Crooked Letter i offers a collection of first-person nonfiction narratives that reflect the distinct 'coming out' experiences of a complex cross-section of gay, lesbian, and transgendered Southerners from all walks of life and at different stages in their lives.
There is the Appalachian widower who, following the death of his wife, decides it's time to tell his church community. There is the young man who left his hometown as a girl, returning hesitant but hopeful for his grandmother's love. There is the adolescent girl who refuses to surrender her soul to Jesus because she is not yet certain of her own beliefs. There is the well-mannered Southern gentleman who hopes his blueberries and biscuits will help ease the awkwardness of coming out to his elderly neighbor. There are the ones who survived the frequent bar raids, arrests, and beatings. But, there is also the first kiss, and the first love.
The experiences represented here pivot around a central theme-finally finding language to understand one's identity, and then discovering we were never the only ones. Revealing a vibrant cross-section of Southerners, the writers of these narratives have in common the experience of being Southern and different, but determined against all odds.
There is the Appalachian widower who, following the death of his wife, decides it's time to tell his church community. There is the young man who left his hometown as a girl, returning hesitant but hopeful for his grandmother's love. There is the adolescent girl who refuses to surrender her soul to Jesus because she is not yet certain of her own beliefs. There is the well-mannered Southern gentleman who hopes his blueberries and biscuits will help ease the awkwardness of coming out to his elderly neighbor. There are the ones who survived the frequent bar raids, arrests, and beatings. But, there is also the first kiss, and the first love.
The experiences represented here pivot around a central theme-finally finding language to understand one's identity, and then discovering we were never the only ones. Revealing a vibrant cross-section of Southerners, the writers of these narratives have in common the experience of being Southern and different, but determined against all odds.
Reviews / Votes
I once attended a lecture by Toni Morrison in which she posited that all literature concerns the stranger-being the stranger, fearing the stranger, accepting the stranger. We who are Southern and LGBT have experienced all of that in our lives which are so often lived as strangers in a place we abidingly call home ... In this remarkable collection of essays, these writers-no longer strangers to themselves-not only claim their rightful place in the landscape of letters but also the geography of juleps and cheese grits and our fundamentalist families. -- Kevin Sessums * author of Mississippi Sissy * Crooked Letter i grabbed me right from the start and held me in its grip all the way through. The stories are deeply personal, so much so that I felt grateful for being entrusted with perhaps the most sensitive and vulnerable parts of its contributors. Regardless of sexual orientation, readers will learn more about being LGBT in the American South while fully relating to the emotions expressed, for its life stories reflect the human condition in its entirety. It is a remarkable book. -- Laurel-Ann Dooley * author of Wicked Atlanta and Best Friend Thief * Crooked Letter i will have you angry at the way things used to be in the South, angry about the strict religious mores and the lack of compassion for LGBT people, and angry that family and strangers would shun and disown their own. But it will also fill you with hope and joy and impart a true sense of the American South, with its unique culture, land, and heritage, and the possibility that our gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender brothers and sisters are changing the region for the better as they remake their homes and their places within them. * Out in Jersey * "I was always aware there were boundaries. I just didn't know quite where they were" sums up the experience of growing up gay in the South as described in Crooked Letter i. These beautiful stories are poignant and sad, yet life-affirming, and anyone who came out as a young Southerner will closely identify with . . . Most telling are the struggles to reconcile the Southern incongruencies-a loving God who condemns His children to hell for loving another person-and a feeling that the only place we can call home will never completely be our home. -- Rich Merritt * author of Secrets of a Gay Marine Porn Star * Crooked Letter i: Out in the South is not a loud book. It doesn't rant or rave. It makes no arguments, proffers no manifestos. Instead, the fifteen diverse voices represented here achieve something much more astonishing: they sing together; they harmonize . . . Its authors reach beyond mere self-acceptance toward genuine pride in who they are. And its lucky readers are challenged to reach as well-beyond tolerance, beyond empathy, beyond even self-recognition-toward a deeper understanding of gender, sexuality, family, religion, and place. In other words, a deeper understanding of what makes us human. -- Julie Marie Wade * author of Wishbone: A Memoir in Fractures and When I Was Straight: Poems * Until I read Crooked Letter i, I had no idea that as tragic and melancholy as Faulkner showed the South to be, even he failed to capture the fresh and vivid suffering of gay men and women growing up there. You will find in Crooked Letter i many heartbreaking accounts of men and women who came into this world with spirits no less pure than any other innocent child, but who-growing up in the South-suffered in an atmosphere of rejection and condemnation as poisonous as any air you will ever find in China. * Rainbow Book Reviews * The testimonials in this meticulously curated volume are all candid and memorable, resulting in the perfect union of a timely subject with a formidable array of writers who represent an admirable range of diversity. From the first essay onward, the regional quickly becomes universal and what was once private, and sometimes painful, becomes, in the telling, something to share and to celebrate. A wonderful addition to the literature of self-discovery and emancipation. -- Madeleine Blais, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist * author of In These Girls, Hope is a Muscle * An enlightening collection of first-person narratives. -- Joan Broerman * Book Log * Crooked Letter i proves that no matter how far gay rights have advanced, the coming-out story is that extra step in the coming-of-age journey that all LGBTQI must take. The collection also proves that Southerners and storytelling go together like Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas. Find a front porch and a glass of iced tea and sit a spell with the stories in Crooked Letter i. They will surprise, amuse, move, and devastate. -- Jamie Brickhouse * author of Dangerous When Wet: A Memoir *More details
Language
English
Place of publication
Athens
United States
Publishing group
University of Georgia Press
Product notice
With flaps
Dimensions
Height: 213 mm
Width: 137 mm
Thickness: 20 mm
Weight
295 gr
ISBN-13
978-1-58838-313-6 (9781588383136)
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03/2016
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CONNIE GRIFFIN'S Southern roots go back for generations in Alabama, Georgia, and Mississippi. She left the South and relocated to New England in her late twenties for graduate studies in multicultural literature of the Americas. A senior lecturer at the University Without Walls, University of Massachusetts Amherst, her 2009 book, To Tell the Truth: Practice and Craft in Narrative Nonfiction, draws on her years of teaching creative nonfiction writing and American multicultural literature. Connie received her BA from the University of Tulsa, MA from Boston College, and PhD from the University of Massachusetts Amherst. She lives in western Massachusetts with her life partner.